[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/rivalita-mezi-prateli\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/rivalita-mezi-prateli\/","headline":"RIVALITA mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli?","name":"RIVALITA mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli?","description":"M\u00e1te dobrou kamar\u00e1dku, se kterou se zn\u00e1te u\u017e dlouho, \u010dasto se spolu nasm\u011bjete, m\u00e1te stejn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy a hodn\u011b z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f? P\u0159esto jste si v\u0161imla toho, \u017ee […]","datePublished":"2025-02-24","dateModified":"2023-04-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/baa231f7e1963b29d6549eb0e137b049d877d4e97c51386f463c7d4fc98329bd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/baa231f7e1963b29d6549eb0e137b049d877d4e97c51386f463c7d4fc98329bd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"nr1.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287952_w1980_t1498496526.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287952_w1980_t1498496526.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/rivalita-mezi-prateli\/","wordCount":912,"articleBody":"M\u00e1te dobrou kamar\u00e1dku, se kterou se zn\u00e1te u\u017e dlouho, \u010dasto se spolu nasm\u011bjete, m\u00e1te stejn\u00e9 z\u00e1jmy a hodn\u011b z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f? P\u0159esto jste si v\u0161imla toho, \u017ee t\u011b\u017ece nese v\u00e1\u0161 \u00fasp\u011bch? Dokonce ji snad t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m n\u011bco neda\u0159\u00ed? Zd\u00e1 se v\u00e1m, \u017ee by nejrad\u011bji byla, za v\u0161ech okolnost\u00ed, ta hez\u010d\u00ed, \u0161ikovn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, talentovan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, m\u011bla lep\u0161\u00ed byt, pr\u00e1ci, auto a dal\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci? Pro\u010d je takov\u00e1? A je takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed v\u016fbec norm\u00e1ln\u00ed?\u00a0M\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt v klidu. Zdrav\u00e9 soupe\u0159en\u00ed, k p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed ve skute\u010dnosti pat\u0159\u00ed. Sou\u010dasn\u00e1 z\u00e1padn\u00ed kultura stoj\u00ed na rivalit\u011b a v\u00fdkonu. V\u011bt\u0161ina rodi\u010d\u016f, d\u011bti chv\u00e1l\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm za p\u011bkn\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky a \u00fasp\u011bchy, ne\u017e za empatii k druh\u00fdm. Ve spole\u010dnosti, ve kter\u00e9 \u017eijeme, mus\u00edme b\u00fdt lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed, jinak bychom nem\u011bli \u0161anci na \u00fasp\u011bch. Bereme \u017eivot jako souboj s ostatn\u00edmi.\u00a0Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e1m p\u0159ipad\u00e1, \u017ee ve vztahu s p\u0159\u00e1teli, je tokov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed tabu. Ale opak je pravdou. Pr\u00e1v\u011b s nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edmi p\u0159\u00e1teli se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1me nejv\u00edce, proto\u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b s nimi, m\u00e1me hodn\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9ho. A tak\u00e9 je t\u0159eba m\u00edt na pam\u011bti, \u017ee ur\u010dit\u00e1 m\u00edra soupe\u0159en\u00ed nen\u00ed na \u0161kodu, proto\u017ee n\u00e1s poh\u00e1n\u00ed k v\u00fdkonu a c\u00edlev\u011bdomosti.\u00a0Zdrav\u00e1 d\u00e1vka soupe\u0159en\u00ed v\u00e1m pom\u016f\u017ee nap\u0159\u00edklad p\u0159i cvi\u010den\u00ed. Kdy\u017e jdete do t\u011blocvi\u010dny se soupe\u0159ivou kamar\u00e1dkou, poraz\u00edte lenost a pod\u00e1te lep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdkon, ne\u017e kdybyste cvi\u010dila sama. Soupe\u0159en\u00ed se v\u00e1m hod\u00ed i v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e d\u011bl\u00e1te st\u00e1le stejnou pr\u00e1ci, m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1s rutina p\u0159ipravit o nad\u0161en\u00ed a za\u010dnete \u00fakoly ob\u00fdvat. Nov\u00e1 rivalka v\u00e1s p\u0159inut\u00ed, abyste ze sebe vydala to nejlep\u0161\u00ed. A takov\u00e1 r\u00fdpav\u00e1 kamar\u00e1dka se v\u00e1m hod\u00ed i p\u0159i pln\u011bn\u00ed sn\u016f a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Jej\u00ed popichov\u00e1n\u00ed, v\u00e1s toti\u017e m\u016f\u017ee motivovat. Kdy\u017e se po\u0159\u00e1d pt\u00e1, kdy u\u017e s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm za\u010dn\u011bte a \u0161kodolib\u011b \u010dek\u00e1 negativn\u00ed odpov\u011b\u010f, mo\u017en\u00e1 se p\u0159im\u011bjete k aktivit\u011b.\u00a0Probl\u00e9m v\u0161ak nast\u00e1v\u00e1, kdy\u017e se to za\u010dne p\u0159eh\u00e1n\u011bt. Jestli\u017ee si uv\u011bdomujete, \u017ee va\u0161e kamar\u00e1dka mluv\u00ed pouze o sob\u011b a o \u00fasp\u011bchu druh\u00fdch nechce ani sly\u0161et, pak je n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b. Na vin\u011b mohou b\u00fdt jej\u00ed rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed j\u00ed nejsp\u00ed\u0161 hodnotili hlavn\u011b podle jej\u00edch v\u00fdkon\u016f. Pokud v\u00e1m jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed vad\u00ed a r\u00e1da byste j\u00ed trochu zm\u011bnila, zkuste zjistit, jak si sama sebe cen\u00ed. N\u011bkdy zavzpom\u00ednejte na dobu, kdy jste byly je\u0161t\u011b d\u011bti a zeptejte se, jak jej\u00ed rodi\u010de reagovali, kdy\u017e p\u0159inesla dom\u016f \u0161patnou zn\u00e1mku, nebo se j\u00ed n\u011bco nepoda\u0159ilo. Mo\u017en\u00e1 zjist\u00edte, pro\u010d na sebe klade vysok\u00e9 n\u00e1roky a pro\u010d j\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bchy druh\u00fdch roz\u010diluj\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 by jej\u00edmu po\u0161kozen\u00e9mu egu pomohlo, pokud byste j\u00ed ob\u010das up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b pochv\u00e1lila. Kdy\u017e bude sama se sebou spokojen\u00e1, bude \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a mo\u017en\u00e1 l\u00e9pe ponese i ciz\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch.\u00a0Zd\u00e1 se v\u00e1m, \u017ee v\u00e1s kamar\u00e1dka nem\u00e1 r\u00e1da, kdy\u017e va\u0161e novinky a \u00fasp\u011bchy p\u0159ech\u00e1z\u00ed, nebo hodnot\u00ed jen nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdm pohledem. M\u016f\u017ee j\u00edt jen o v\u00e1\u0161 pocit. Ve skute\u010dnosti t\u0159eba nen\u00ed spokojen\u00e1 sama se sebou, a proto nep\u0159eje \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ani ostatn\u00edm. Pokud lid\u00e9 poci\u0165uj\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b n\u011bco, s \u010d\u00edm se sami nevyrovnali, nedok\u00e1\u017eou p\u0159ijmout \u00fasp\u011bch druh\u00fdch. Zkuste si s p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u00ed promluvit a t\u0159eba spole\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ijdete na to, co j\u00ed tr\u00e1p\u00ed. T\u0159eba se v\u00e1m poda\u0159\u00ed probl\u00e9m vy\u0159e\u0161it a kamar\u00e1dce i jej\u00edmu okol\u00ed se ulev\u00ed. Tak\u00e9 ji m\u016f\u017eete motivovat k \u010dinnosti, kter\u00e1 j\u00ed bav\u00ed, nebo je v n\u00ed opravdu dobr\u00e1. Pokud bude za\u017e\u00edvat sama \u00fasp\u011bch, je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee jej za\u010dne p\u0159\u00e1t i ostatn\u00edm.\u00a0Dejte si v\u0161ak pozor na nep\u0159ej\u00edcnost. To je \u00fapln\u011b n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e sout\u011b\u017eivost! Jestli\u017ee v\u00e1s kamar\u00e1dka po ka\u017ed\u00e9m \u00fasp\u011bchu pomlouv\u00e1, nebo proti v\u00e1m intrikuje, rozejd\u011bte se. Takov\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed, nem\u00e1 s p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00edm opravdu nic spole\u010dn\u00e9ho!\u00a0Po p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed t\u011bchto \u0159\u00e1dk\u016f si mo\u017en\u00e1 uv\u011bdomujete, \u017ee jste to vy sama, kdo t\u011b\u017ece nese ciz\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch. Pokud si tuhle nep\u0159\u00edjemnou pravdu dok\u00e1\u017eete p\u0159iznat, jste na spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 cest\u011b ke zm\u011bn\u011b. A jak na ni? Zamyslete se nad t\u00edm, co v\u00e1s k sout\u011b\u017eivosti vede. M\u00e1te se sama r\u00e1da? Nevyl\u00e9v\u00e1te si jen sv\u00e9 negativn\u00ed pocity na ostatn\u00edch? Nem\u00e1te na sebe p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 velk\u00e9 n\u00e1roky, kter\u00e9 by bylo vhodn\u00e9 sn\u00ed\u017eit? A je pro v\u00e1s \u00fasp\u011bch ostatn\u00edch opravdu ohro\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed, nebo si to jen nalh\u00e1v\u00e1te? \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se: \u201eP\u0159ej a bude ti p\u0159\u00e1no!\u201c Zkuste to a mo\u017en\u00e1, ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, za\u017eijete pozitivn\u00ed zm\u011bny.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"RIVALITA mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli?","item":"https:\/\/www.nr1.cz\/rivalita-mezi-prateli\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]